“It’s important to remember that the relationship is all about you.
It’s not about the other person.
It can be about who you are as a person, or who you want to be as a relationship.
You can’t have the other.
You’re not in this to be the other.”—Katy G, writer of the New York Times bestseller The Beauty Myth: An Illustrated Guide to the Art of Finding Love, New York, NY, 2012